Momma, Mommy and Me

I want you to think back at a time when you were a child. Who was the first person you went to when you were mad, sad, happy, or just wanted someone to talk to? Mine was my mother (thats a whole other blog though) The old saying two heads are better than one is oh so true. I like to call it two moms are better than one. I believe my daughter has it made by having two moms. Double the love and comfort mothers can give. Now mind you she wasn't born with two moms. When I met my girlfriend she was on her way out to California to start her career and finally live out her dream. Who wouldn't rather be in California than Wisconsin. We went out a few times and still she had planned to move that all changed when she met penny. Now I'm not saying my child is so adorable that she could make anyone drop their life long dreams and stay living in hell. Something about that first time the met something clicked like an automatic bond. I still to this day wonder if penny is really Jessie's child and not mine. At the time I think that the last thing on Jessie's mind was to become a mother but in a matter of weeks that exactly what she had become. She was a natural. Penny was ten months when we started dating so Jessie has been there for all her big moments. Jessie taught her one of her first words, helped her to start crawling, and when penny finally decided to start walking her first steps were to Jessie and not me. Like I said I often wonder if she is Jessie's child. She has blonde hair just like her. They have the same taste in music and dance moves. The same mannerisms and same vocabulary. She is the first one penny imitates. Penny loves her exactly the same as she loves me to say that this is not a true family is the most laughable thing I've ever heard. We are the true example of family and love. Jessie dropped everything to be apart of us. I can't imagine mine and penny's life without her.